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戀愛受阻遭侮辱
當年因為家裡反對，我和男友明輝只能暗地裡來往。一天晚上，爸爸撞見明輝在我的宿舍，二話不說，對我抬手就打，我氣得不顧一切沖進瓢潑大雨中。我生病了，去私人診所輸液，喪心病狂的醫生趁我燒得暈頭轉向竟強奸了我。最美好的東西沒有獻給戀人，卻被禽獸奪了去，我悲憤欲絕，含羞忍辱逃到了北部。
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我去朋友的公司打工，經理姓王。王經理絲毫不掩飾對我的喜歡，常帶我去泡酒吧、下迪廳，還給我買高檔時裝，出手闊綽，令我眼花繚亂。我知道王經理絕對不是行善積德，他對我一定有所圖。但我欲罷不能，只有在燈紅酒綠的喧嘩和乙醇的麻醉下，我才能暫且忘掉那種撕心裂肺卻又無奈的傷痛。
家裡先後三次來人找我回去，我不為所動。明輝來時，正撞見我和王經理等人打麻將，我和王經理挨著，他的手環在我的腰間。明輝氣得罵我不要臉，扭頭就走，我不顧一切地追了出去。
從北部回來後，明輝變得非常沉默，還學會了抽菸。他肯定是懷疑我和王經理不清不白，我又委屈又痛心，卻不敢把被人欺負的事向他坦白。後來明輝承諾不追究過去，我心裡才稍感釋然。2000年春節我和明輝結婚。那晚，明輝結束後，裝做無意地向我身下掃了一眼，那失落而復雜的神情令我不寒而栗。
結婚第二年我生下兒子，明輝如獲至寶，只要在家便逗兒子玩。他們父子兩個樂成一團，我卻像局外人似的，怎麼也無法融入 心靈雞湯
。明輝始終對我不冷不熱，我既挑不出他的毛病，卻也感受不到夫妻間應有的那種親密。性生活像例行公事，他來去匆匆，純粹是為了滿足自己的生理需要。有時我感到這樣很不公平，但他木然的表情令我欲言又止，是我不好，我只能忍氣吞聲。
今年春天，街上發生一起嚴重車禍，被撞者不治身亡，正是害我的那個醫生。震驚之餘，我仿佛搬走心裡的一塊大石頭。我一直躲著，不願走那條街，現在好了，真是惡有惡報。
夫妻雙方如何更好地融入性愛
誤會牽出當年事
8月初的一天，我突然在街上遇到了王經理，出於禮貌我上了他的車。王經理一刻不停地說著這幾年來對我的思念，還說這次來市裡投資，有一半的原因是為了我，我聽得渾身起雞皮疙瘩。見我的態度越來越冷淡，王經理按捺不住，對我動手動腳，被我嚴詞拒絕。下車時他把一張名片塞進我包裡，叫我有機會與他聯系。我明白他的意思，一陣惡心，拿著包頭也不回地進了公司，慌亂之餘，竟把名片的事扔在了腦後。
晚上我在廚房收拾，包裡的手機響了，明輝替我接，電話卻很快掛斷。我問他誰打來的，什麼事，回答我的卻是良久的沉默。忙完後來到客廳，見明輝對著一張名片發愣，我忽地明白了，趕緊說本來想撕掉它的，卻忘了。哼，是銷毀證據吧?別瞎說，我和他什麼都沒有。那他為什麼要鬼鬼祟祟地打電話?我越解釋越糊塗，明輝卻異常激動：當初我真是瞎了眼，根本就不該找你回來。我又氣又急，結結巴巴地說：我和他只是巧遇，偶然碰上的。少跟我來這一套，到底是巧遇還是外遇?結婚前你什麼樣兒，自己不知道嗎!
明輝的話深深刺痛了我，沒錯，我是個不幹凈的女人，哪有資格和他理論?我的大腦頓時一片空白，像待宰的羔羊般惶然不知所措。明輝一根接一根地抽菸，最後狠狠地把菸頭摔在地上，咬牙切齒地說：離婚!
我的心都要碎了，越想越感到窩囊，我不能背這個黑鍋，一定要向他解釋清楚。可明輝哪裡聽得進去，他的不滿和憤懣像機關槍一樣射向我：正因為愛你太深，當初才不管你做下什麼，我都原諒了你。這幾年我一直克制自己，回避你的過去，可我心裡的壓抑你能體會到嗎?如今你還要重蹈覆轍，你還當我是你丈夫嗎?
我又氣又恨，氣他對我的過去耿耿於懷、不依不饒，恨他小肚雞腸、捕風捉影，真想爭一口氣，離就離了。可是，想想這幾年他對我的關愛、對這個家的辛苦付出、對兒子的盡職盡責，我實在難以割舍對他的感情。還有，真離了婚，兒子歸誰撫養?房子怎麼分割?數十萬元的住房貸款怎麼償還?哎呀，真是剪不斷、理還亂，我的頭都快要炸開了。
接下來幾天，明輝一直不理我，還搬到另一間房去睡。一天夜裡，兒子突然咳嗽不止，呼吸急促，發起高熱。我急忙抱起兒子下樓，明輝在隔壁聽到動靜追出來，騎上摩托車帶我們去了醫院。兒子得的是肺炎，當時就打了吊針，我們在床頭一邊一個守著。凌晨3點，兒子的病情緩解了些，明輝主動說：你回去睡一覺吧，兒子有我呢。還是你回去吧，白天還得寫材料。謙讓的結果是誰都沒有回家，但總算有了對話。
我想借機緩和一下與明輝的關系，兒子病愈出院後，我特意把明輝的被褥搬回了我們的臥室。明輝不語，卻厭煩地甩開我搭在他身上的胳膊，我的心再次沉下去。明輝認定我和王經理有染，我做了對不起他的事，這個疙瘩不解開，我們的婚姻很危險。
性生活夫妻之間的潛規則你要懂
坦誠交流釋前嫌
一天傍晚，我接了兒子去媽媽那裡吃飯，回家後看到餐桌上杯盤狼藉，白酒少了半瓶，明輝醉得一塌糊塗，渾身都被汗水浸透了。我趕緊燒水沏茶，用熱毛巾給他擦拭身子。看他酒醒了些，我流著淚說：明輝，你實在不相信我咱就離，求你別再這麼作賤自己了，好不好?什麼王經理?他不就是一投資商嗎，牛氣什麼?我今天就是把他給治了，大不了開除我，他們還能把我怎麼樣?我心裡一顫，明輝見著王經理了?他們之間發生了什麼事?
再問，明輝不說話，又睡了。我只好偷偷給明輝的科長打電話，科長是明輝的老師，兩人關系還不錯。科長說，今天中午單位領導宴請王經理，明輝一個勁兒地叫王經理喝酒，弄得對方很尷尬。領導非常生氣，狠狠地把明輝訓了一頓。
我大吃一驚，真是冤家路窄，明輝如此感情用事，得罪王經理不要緊，惹得領導不高興，豈不是自毀前程嗎?可是，出現這種事還不都是因為我?一時間，自責、悔恨、擔心和茫然無措，各種情緒交織在一起，像苦澀的海水一樣把我淹沒了。
恍惚間，我感到明輝打開了客廳的燈，他喝完水後一聲不響地走過去，不久又折回來站到我跟前，輕聲說：回屋睡去吧。他的臉色依然冷峻，但目光裡分明閃爍著憐惜，是我臉上的淚痕使他動了惻隱之心吧?我心裡一熱，不由得緊緊抱住他。明輝，你知道前幾年我為什麼不辭而別?為什麼我從不去私人診所看病?全都因為那個恥辱的大雨天……
話說完了，我掩面痛哭，連日來的復雜情緒得以釋放。明輝愣了半晌，猛地把我攬進懷裡，撫摸著我的頭發，喃喃地說：這些不幸的事為什麼不早告訴我?你並沒有錯，為什麼要讓自己承受那麼多?這些話聽起來是那麼親切，我的心被暖暖的溫情緊緊包裹著，像迷失已久的孩子終於回到家，我撲在明輝的懷裡嗚咽不止，喜悅的淚水濕透了明輝的衣衫。
坦誠相告使我徹底驅散了心中的陰霾。明輝並沒有因此而看不起我，這使我如同獲得新生，生活也掀開了嶄新的一頁。
愛情是非常脆弱的，就像眼睛容不得沙子。愛情最不能容忍的是不忠和背叛，否則愛就可能變成恨，愛情的美酒就會變成苦澀的眼淚;愛情就像我們的機體，彼此的坦誠和信任如同氧氣和血液一樣必不可少，否則愛情就會枯萎、死亡;猜忌和懷疑如同病毒和細菌，一旦沾染上，愛情就會感染發炎，甚至形成難以愈合的潰瘍和創傷。
我和丈夫的情感歷程有風有雨，在內憂外患導致的分合聚散中，他們雖然走到了一起，但愛情也被病毒、細菌傷害得遍體鱗傷。其實像我這樣的情感挫折事例，在生活中並不少見。
兩個相愛的人常被一些意想不到的人和事分隔，但實際上，分隔他們的是這些意外事件帶 早洩怎麼辦
來的對愛人的信任缺乏。信任是愛情關系的基本元素，沒有信任，雙方會變得多疑、緊張、恐懼，也因此感覺不到愛情的快樂和美妙，反而被恐懼和猜疑囚困，甚至被妒忌和妄想等消極情緒弄至窒息。要學會愛，就要學會寬容和寬恕，忘掉過去所受的傷害和委屈。沒有寬容和寬恕，愛就會受到恐懼、猜疑、偏見的限制和傷害。愛情中的很多問題都是由恐懼和猜疑制造的。因為不信任對方，不能寬容和寬恕對方的過錯，於是妒忌和憤怒就經常在心頭纏繞，愛情生活也被敵意和恨焚燒，愛人就會進一步被分隔。
令人高興的是，我和丈夫最終在磕磕絆絆中成長起來，拋棄前嫌，學會信任、寬容和寬恕，從而消除了分隔彼此的不安全感和懷疑猜忌。
當我們的信念改變，愛情就跟著改變。愛情不該成為過去的不幸的犧牲者，愛有改變一切的力量。過去不等於未來，過去發生了什麼是我們無法改變的，無論愛情關系出現什麼問題，只有立足現在，展望未來，才能改變信念，贏回愛，贏回愛人的心。
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Love blocked and insulted
Back then, because my family objected, my boyfriend Minghui and I could only
communicate in secret. One night, my father bumped into Minghui in my dormitory,
without saying a word, he raised his hand and hit me. I was so angry that I
rushed into the pouring rain desperately. I was sick and went to a private
clinic for an infusion, and the frenzied doctor raped me while I was dizzy from
the fever. The most beautiful thing was not dedicated to my lover, but was
snatched away by beasts. I was so sad and indignant that I fled to Shijiazhuang
with shame and humiliation.
I went to work in a friend's company, and the manager's surname was Wang.
Manager Wang made no secret of his liking for me. He often took me to bars and
discos, and even bought me high-end fashions. His generous spending dazzled me.
I know that Manager Wang is definitely not doing good deeds, he must have plans
for me. But I can't stop, only under the noise of feasting and drinking and the
anesthesia of ethanol, can I temporarily forget the heart-piercing but helpless
pain.
People from my family came to ask me to go back three times, but I was unmoved.
When Minghui came, he saw me playing mahjong with Manager Wang and others.
Manager Wang and I were next to each other, and his bracelet was around my
waist. Minghui was so angry that he called me shameless, turned his head and
left, and I chased him out desperately.
After returning from Shijiazhuang, Minghui became very silent and even learned
to smoke. He must have suspected that Manager Wang and I were ambiguous. I was
wronged and heartbroken, but I didn't dare to confess to him about being
bullied. After Minghui promised not to pursue the past, I felt a little
relieved. In the Spring Festival of 2000, Minghui and I got married. That night,
after Minghui finished, he pretended to glance under me unintentionally, and the
lost and complicated expression made me shudder.
In the second year of my marriage, I gave birth to a son. Minghui was like a
treasure, and whenever he was at home, he would play with his son. The father
and son were happy together, but I was like an outsider, unable to integrate
into "Chicken Soup for the Soul". Minghui has always been lukewarm to me, I
can't find fault with him, but I can't feel the intimacy that a husband and wife
should have. Sex life is like a routine, he comes and goes in a hurry, purely to
satisfy his physical needs. Sometimes I feel this is very unfair, but his wooden
expression makes me hesitate to speak, it is my fault, I can only swallow my
anger.
In the spring of this year, there was a serious car accident on the street, and
the victim died. It was the doctor who killed me. Shocked, I seemed to remove a
big stone in my heart. I have been hiding, do not want to walk that street, and
now it's better, it's really evil.
Misunderstanding brought out the events of the year
One day in early August, I suddenly met Manager Wang on the street, and I got
into his car out of courtesy. Manager Wang kept talking about how he missed me
in the past few years, and also said that half of the reason for investing in
the city this time was because of me, and I got goosebumps all over my body.
Seeing that my attitude was getting colder and colder, Manager Wang couldn't
hold back, and started to touch me, which I sternly refused. He slipped a
business card into my bag as I got out of the car and offered me a chance to get
in touch with him. I understood what he meant, felt sick for a while, and
entered the company with my bag on my head without looking back. When I was
flustered, I left the business card behind me.
In the evening, I was tidying up in the kitchen, and the cell phone in my bag
rang. Minghui answered it for me, but the call was quickly hung up. I asked him
who was calling and what was the matter, but the answer was a long silence.
After finishing my work, I went to the living room and saw Minghui staring at a
business card in a daze. I suddenly understood, and hurriedly said that I wanted
to tear it up, but forgot. Hmph, destroy the evidence, right? Don't talk
nonsense, I have nothing with him. Then why did he call secretly? The more I
explained, the more confused I became, but Minghui was extremely excited: I was
really blind back then, and I should never have asked you back. I was angry and
anxious, and stammered: I just met him by chance, by chance. Don't follow me
like this, is it a coincidence or an affair? Don't you know what you were like
before marriage!
Minghui's words hurt me deeply, yes, I am an unclean woman, how can I have the
right to argue with him? www.poxet.net My brain went blank, and I was at a loss
like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered. Minghui smoked one cigarette after
another, and finally threw the cigarette butt on the ground fiercely, and said
through gritted teeth: Divorce!
My heart is about to break, and the more I think about it, the more useless I
feel. I can't take the blame for this, and I must explain it clearly to him. But
Minghui couldn't listen, his dissatisfaction and resentment shot at me like a
machine gun: because I love you so deeply, no matter what you did back then, I
forgave you. In the past few years, I have been restraining myself and avoiding
your past, but can you feel the depression in my heart? Now you want to repeat
the same mistakes, do you still think of me as your husband?
I was angry and hated, angry at him for being obsessed with my past and never
letting go, hated him for being small-minded and pretentious, I really wanted to
fight for my breath, so I left. However, thinking about his care for me, his
hard work for this family, and his dedication to his son in the past few years,
it is really difficult for me to let go of my feelings for him. Also, if we get
divorced, who will take care of the son? How will the house be divided? How will
the housing loan of hundreds of thousands of yuan be repaid? Oh, it’s so messy
and messy, my head is about to explode.
For the next few days, Minghui kept ignoring me and moved to another room to
sleep. One night, my son suddenly had a persistent cough, shortness of breath,
and developed a high fever. I hurriedly picked up my son and went downstairs.
Minghui heard the movement next door and chased us out. He rode a motorcycle and
took us to the hospital. My son was suffering from pneumonia, and he was given
an injection at that time, and we stayed on the side of the bed. At 3 o'clock in
the morning, his son's condition improved a little, Minghui took the initiative
to say: You go back to sleep, my son has me. You should go back, you still have
to write materials during the day. As a result of humility, no one went home,
but there was finally a dialogue.
I wanted to take this opportunity to ease the relationship with Minghui. After
my son recovered and was discharged from the hospital, I deliberately moved
Minghui's bedding back to our bedroom. Minghui said nothing, but shook off my
arm on him in disgust, and my heart sank again. Minghui believed that I had an
affair with Manager Wang, and I did something wrong to him. If this knot is not
resolved, our marriage will be in danger.
Candid communication to clear up previous suspicions
One evening, I took my son to my mother's place for dinner. When I got home, I
saw that the table was messed up, half a bottle of white wine was missing, and
Minghui was completely drunk and drenched in sweat. I hurriedly boiled water to
make tea and wiped his body with a hot towel. Seeing him sober up, I said with
tears: "Minghui, if you really don't believe me, let's leave. Please don't make
such a fool of yourself, okay? Manager Wang? Isn't he just an investor? What are
you arrogant about?" ?I just cured him today. What else could they do to me? My
heart trembled. Minghui saw Manager Wang? What happened between them?
Asked again, Minghui fell asleep again without speaking. I had no choice but to
call Minghui's section chief secretly. The section chief is Minghui's teacher,
and the relationship between the two is pretty good. The section chief said that
at noon today, the unit leaders had a banquet for Manager Wang, and Minghui kept
asking Manager Wang to drink, which made him very embarrassed. The leader was
very angry and scolded Minghui severely.
I was taken aback. It’s really a narrow road for enemies. Minghui is so
emotional. It doesn’t matter if he offends Manager Wang. If he makes the leader
unhappy, wouldn’t it be self-destructive? But, isn’t it all because of me? For a
while, self-blame, regret, worry and At a loss, all kinds of emotions were
intertwined, drowning me like bitter sea water.
In a daze, I felt that Minghui turned on the light in the living room. After
drinking the water, he walked over in silence, and soon came back to stand in
front of me, and said softly: Go back to the room and sleep. His face was still
stern, but there was clear pity in his eyes. Was it the tears on my face that
moved him? My heart felt hot, and I couldn't help hugging him tightly. Minghui,
do you know why I left without saying goodbye a few years ago? Why I never went
to see a doctor in a private clinic? It was all because of that shameful rainy
day...
After I finished speaking, I covered my face and wept bitterly, releasing the
complex emotions I had been having for the past few days. Minghui was stunned
for a while, then suddenly pulled me into his arms, stroked my hair, and
murmured: Why didn't you tell me about these unfortunate things earlier? You are
not wrong, why do you have to bear so much? These words It sounded so kind, my
heart was tightly wrapped in warm warmth, like a long-lost child finally
returning home, I threw myself into Minghui's arms and wept endlessly, tears of
joy soaked Minghui's clothes.
Speaking frankly made me completely dispel the haze in my heart. Minghui didn't
look down on me because of this, it made me feel like I was born again, and a
new page in my life was opened.
Love is very fragile, just like eyes cannot tolerate sand. The most intolerable
thing in love is infidelity and betrayal, otherwise love may turn into hate, and
the wine of love will turn into bitter tears; love is like our organism, mutual
honesty and trust are as essential as oxygen and blood, otherwise love Suspicion
and suspicion are like viruses and bacteria. Once infected, love will be
infected and inflamed, and even form ulcers and wounds that are difficult to
heal.
My husband and I have experienced ups and downs in our emotional journey.
Although we were separated and reunited due to internal and external troubles,
although they came together, our love was also bruised and bruised by viruses
and bacteria. In fact, cases of emotional setbacks like mine are not uncommon in
life.
Two people who love each other are often separated by some unexpected people and
things, but in fact, what separates them is the lack of trust in their lover
brought about by these unexpected events. Trust is the basic element of a love
relationship. Without trust, both parties will become suspicious, nervous, and
fearful. Therefore, they will not feel the joy and beauty of love. asphyxia. To
learn to love, we must learn tolerance and forgiveness, and forget the hurt and
grievances we have suffered in the past. Without tolerance and forgiveness, love
is limited and hurt by fear, suspicion, prejudice. Many problems in love are
created by fear and suspicion. Because you don't trust the other person, you
can't tolerate and forgive the other person's faults, so jealousy and anger are
often entangled in your heart, your love life is also burned by hostility and
hatred, and your lover will be further separated.
The good news is that my husband and I finally grew up through the bumps and
bumps, let go of the past, and learned to trust, tolerate and forgive, thus
eliminating the insecurities, doubts and suspicions that separated us.
When our beliefs change, love changes with it. Love should not be the
unfortunate victim of the past, love has the power to change everything. The
past is not equal to the future. We cannot change what happened in the past. No
matter what problems arise in the love relationship, only by standing on the
present and looking forward to the future can we change our beliefs, win back
love, and win back the lover's heart.
印度犀利士 |
威格拉 |
威而鋼口溶錠 |
犀利士5mg |
威而柔 |
超級犀利士 |
壯陽藥散賣試用 |
藍鑽威而鋼 |
超級必利勁 |
必利吉 |
泰國果凍威而鋼 |
卡瑪格 |
威而鋼100mg |
犀利士20mg |
樂威壯 |
必利勁 |
雙效果凍威而鋼
